I may just lose my SSSSSSS on our wedding planner. The stress of planning this wedding is starting to get to me
BIG TIME.
When we first me our wedding planner she seemed to be completely on top of things she agreed to keep us in our budget, she had no problem with our short time period in which we had to plan it and seemed to be in sync with our personalities. We originally wanted a wedding planner to help us with the big day because it is an out of state wedding and we don’t have any sort of knowledge of the good vendors etc. I had researched that a good wedding planner often pays for themselves with their negotiation power with vendors. So we hired one and I was so excited.
She started to rub me the wrong way a few months ago when she would say she would email a re-cap of our meeting via email a couple of days after the meeting…. And a couple of days after the meeting there would be no re-cap in my in-box. I had to remind her to send them. My biggest pet peeve on the planet is when you say you are going to do something and then don’t do it. This happened a few times but, I chalked it up to me just being anal and moved forward. I then got irritated when we had our first vendor meetings and she did NOTHING to prepare us for them so when we were put on the spot to ask questions we didn’t know when the heck to ask and the meeting became somewhat unproductive. Little things like those here and there have been building up on me. And in my attempt not to be bridezilla I have let them go…. BUT……
There are a few other things... but without boring you with them... I will say this.... There's only 3 months till the wedding and it is now crunch time!!!! So I'm a little on edge and wondering why are we still moving at what seems like turtle pace?!?!? The last trip our there she had 3 meetings scheduled for us… 3… the whole weekend. We didn’t travel to the venue for vacation we wanted to get as much done possible and now we are behind. I feel like I to have to ride her a$$ on where things are at with negotiations… where contracts are … why we are over a month behind on our timeline and have had 2 months to catch up, etc and yet here we are and I am starting to freak out. I just need to know what is happening.
TO TOP IT ALLLLLL OFF…. She sent over a new projected budget and it’s $13,000 over what we had told her was our MAX…. WTF FREAKING OUT>
SO… I emailed her a list of questions and topics I wanted to talk about an she replied with … “I want to discuss if you have confidence in me to move forward together.”
>> SERIOUSLY!?!??!?! I DIDN’T KNOW ASKING FOR AN UPDATE MEANT I DIDN’T HAVE CONFIDANCE!!!! WTFFFFFFFFFFFF AM I OVERREACTING HELLLLLLLLPPPPP!!!
